In Proverbs 18:22 it says,”He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. A “few” years ago today I found my “good” and married her. Happy anniversary BJ.
Love, Mark
In Proverbs 18:22 it says,”He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord. A “few” years ago today I found my “good” and married her. Happy anniversary BJ.
Love, Mark
You’ve heard the old adage about a team/chain is only as strong as its weakest member/link? That simile or metaphor, depending how you use it, finally got to me and I had to think about it instead of just accepting it. That is when I realized that as a business or team model a chain is not how I wanted any organization to be run. Then I noticed that paradigms can come from our metaphors so “Life and Death is a power of the tongue” took on a whole new meaning. After all when compared to a chain who wants to be the weak link and fail the whole team and cause everything to be ruined! No, pressure there right and what group after that simile has been laid on you has not looked around and started to predict who would be the first to break. Or have a bad day or week and see if that label ever leaves. And since this is a Bible Study blog I wondered about chains in the Bible.
Now an organization being pictured as a bunch of links working together is a valid image but not in a linear chain rather as chainmail. If a church or group is setup as a linear chain then the adage is true and the pressure is unbelievable on all of the links and it will eventually break. A lesson that I learned in the book Good to Great is pick your team so that the “bus” can keep running in good or bad times. Chainmail is a better model because in it every link is connected to someone, so even if one piece is hit it’s connected links will support it and the whole team does not break.
Here are thoughts on the adage of a linear link chain:
– all the links look the same at the beginning
– links fail due to stress but the strong links are incapable of helping the weak one
– enough stress in a bind and any link can fail
– links may fail because of external forces that eat away at it
– links may fail because of an imperfection or an impurity in the metal
– if a chain fails it cannot put itself back together, it takes a repairman to put in a replacement link
– don’t mismatch links when making a chain
Now even in chainmail a link may fail and have to be replaced but the whole piece does not have to fall apart because of one piece.
CHAINS IN THE BIBLE
Using my Strong’s Concordance I counted nineteen different words that are translated “chains.” One of those words, aboth, is translated also as rope and cord. Before this study my first thought of “chain” was a linear set of links used to restrain or link things together. This is a use of chains in the Bible especially in Judges 16:21 when the Philistines finally used chain instead of rope to bind Samson. But many of the references of chain are in connection with decorations especially things for human wear like necklaces, earrings and chainmail collars.
The Old Testament has the most uses of the word chain and again many of those are for decorations; while in the Roman Empire controlled world of the New Testament the three words for chains all seem to reflect binding and restricting human movement and freedom.
Ropes and cords probably were used more than metal chains to bind people simply because cord was easier to make and less expensive.
Photos of chains are from http://www.stockvault.net/c/industrial/locks-and-chains/?p=2, Photo of Egyptian chainmail http://www.flickr.com/photos/waltercallens/3465622123/
THE LAND OF LEARNING
by Mark
The bell rings, your book opens
All will reside and spend their time in the Land of Learning
Each start off fast, so much to know
Soon the Labels start: some for good some for bad
Then comes our time in the House of Smart and Dumb
Just wait you will need this next year
Work hard so you will impress and succeed
Pass that test, get that credit, show your stuff
Those Labels just don’t seem to go away
You played the game got the Diploma or blew it off to strut your stuff
Now the learning starts
Load the cart
Do the dance
Know the job
Learn to family
When do we learn to live
“plan the work, work the plan”
If they can’t do anything else make them a teacher or a telemarketer
If your so smart why aren’t you _____
“Chase the cheese”
Show me the green
The learning done, your book is closed
The final bell rings
H J O P L I N E
Faces were new, the road was long,
but we would be home soon.
Pickles expiring, shoes were free,
this Warehouse of God was piled high
Heard the stories, saw the pain, touched a nightmare,
but we would be home soon.
Heroes are tired, we came with H.E.L.P.,
the water was cold, the shade was hot, the work was hard.
Numb faces, stories telling, changed lives,
but we would be soon could go home.
Good hearts lending a hand, using talents in serving man.
Work we did! Great or small?
We just came to answer The Call.
As this will be a busy weekend I thought I would share a story I wrote several years ago. Happy Mother’s Day
A GODportunity or The Rocking Chair and Three Men
My wife found a fifties style living room set made of solid wood with wide armrest and bright orange flowered cushions at the Salvation Army and caught a vision of their potential. The set consisted of a six-foot long couch, a matching rocking chair, a lounge chair of similar style and ten cushions, all for only forty-five dollars. The cushions were not original to the set because they did not fit quite right. But she was convinced that with a little work they would brighten up the sun/TV room of our house. Knowing my objections would go nowhere; we purchased them. I carefully tied the couch to the top of our 1989 Ford Taurus, arranged the chairs in the trunk and tied it down. I stuffed orange flowered cushions where they could fit and drove home wondering about the new additions to our household.
I always wonder about the history of used furniture: where was it made, who had sat on them, why did it finally end up at the Salvation Army and who made those orange flowered cushions. My oldest two sons and I spent a week sanding off some of the stories it did tell like “who loved John”, a variety of misspelled words and several burn spots. Clearly the living room set had a chapter in its history that they would like to forget. After two coats of polyurethane stain the set looked pretty good. I guess the hard work and the dark colored stain helped to improve the orange flowered cushions, because they did look nice in our sunroom. Score another one for my wife’s perceptive vision.
They lived a pretty mild and sort of short chapter with us, but they served us well as those orange flowered cushions were pretty comfortable. We continued to redo and rearrange our house and soon we realized their season with us had ended. We finally made the decision to have a two-day yard sale with them as the main attraction.
The early morning part of Day One went well, we sold a lot of stuff but no one even looked at our comfortable, finely finished, orange flowered living room set. Now the saga of the Three Men begins; late in the morning Man One pulled up in a truck loaded high with furniture. Our hopes rose that the living room set would soon be sold. He introduced himself with a business card for a used furniture store in a nearby town. He said, “ I will make you a fair deal for both of us.” He proceeded to offer us half of our asking price. He put forth a few other chaffing comments as we finally said,” If they don’t sell by tomorrow we will give you a call.”
With all the work of sanding and staining to be offered that was maddening and outrageous. I leaned over to my wife and said,” I would rather give them away than sell them to him.” I should have known better! God hears those kinds of statements and my wife’s big tender heart never forgets.
Man Two arrived as our first customer of Day Two. He pulled up in a well-worn compact car. He came from Egypt and had not been in America very long, he needed a rocking chair and thought ours would be perfect. I was leery of breaking up the set and he was short on cash. He said he would come back later with his wife and more money to check and see if it was sold. My sons recognized him as a clerk from the corner store down the highway. I dismissed his offer as most people don’t come back.
A couple of hours had gone by when that well-worn compact car drove in the driveway once again. He got out of the car followed by two energetic preschoolers; he then opened the passenger door for a very pregnant wife. My wife gave me “the look” and I knew what was about to happen to the “all wood, finely finished, orange flowered living room set.”
Man Three, driving a pickup drove up about this time and began browsing our garage sale offerings. He watched and listened as the “very pregnant wife” settled comfortably into the rocker and my wife asked the couple all kinds of questions. I knew I would be parting with my furniture. Man Three listened as my wife gave away my comfortable, finely finished, orange flowered living room set. We then discussed how we could get the set to their house when Man Three stepped up and said,” Since you are giving them the living room set, load them in my truck and I will take it to their house. I will be glad to help with this blessing.”
The living room set fit much better in his truck than on the top of my car. My wife thought the “very pregnant wife” needed a beautiful homegrown flowering plant, it did not match the cushions, so it was added into the truck.
We waved as they drove off down the street. Besides a good warm glow on the inside, a hug from my wife completed my earthly payment.
I never saw any of those Men again.
The living room set I am sure added another chapter to its long and useful history of service. And for us, it had provided a GODportunity at a yard sale to bless someone.